Friday, August 21, 2020
Is The Ivy League Worth It TKG
Is The Ivy League Worth It When people ask us if itâs really worth it to go to an Ivy League school, itâs admittedly hard to answer. Itâs a personal question, and a loaded one at that. Our answer is that it depends. If youâre asking about the price tag, thatâs something only you and your family can decide for yourselves. There is no price difference between an Ivy and a private non-Ivy, and deciding if itâs financially wise for you (or your child) is something you should do before applying. Itâs typically very hard to talk yourself out of going to an Ivy League school once youâve gotten in. Economics aside, most of the people who have emailed and spoken with us are really asking âis it worth it for me (or my child) to work tirelessly every single day in high school just to get into an Ivy League school?âWe have made our feelings on the quest to attend an Ivy League school incredibly clear. You absolutely do not have to go to an Ivy League school to be successful. That is nonsense, and som ething the marketing teams at Harvard have convinced us to believe. Since birth, weâre taught that Ivy League is best. But truthfully, most students arenât cut out to attend. Yes, acceptance rates have plummeted and the schools are undoubtedly good places to get an education. More people are applying than ever before, and the single digit acceptance rates makes these schools seem unreachable and thus alluring. But that doesnât mean you have to go to an Ivy League school to do well in life, and it certainly doesnât mean that there arenât plenty of other good schools where you can further your education. We rarely discuss sports on this blog, because you donât have to play a sport to get into college. But for a moment letâs relate getting into an Ivy League to athleticism. There are people on this earth who are naturally athletic. The kind of people who at age eight were ready to play basketball at a high school level. They just have it. Unfortunately, no matter how hard a non-athletically inclined person trains, they probably wonât ever be as good as the eight year old phenomenon. The non-athletic person can work on agility and do drills until they want to pull their hair out, but probably wonât beat an opponent who picked up a basketball at age four and sank a three point shot. So, if youâre spending your high school career chained to a library desk just to get straight Aâs and you have no time to extracurricular activities or a social life, the Ivy League might not be the place for you. And there is NOTHING wrong with that. You need the grades, the test scores, and the extracurriculars to get into an Ivy. If youâre spending all of your time studying to maintain a 4.0 GPA and canât make it to your dads birthday dinner, then no, itâs not worth it to strive for an Ivy. Even if you got in, you would struggle once you got there. We hate to see kids wrecked with anxiety and spinning their wheels, just to be declined from their dream sc hool. High school is a time to be enjoyed, and there absolutely is a happy medium to be found. On the flip side, very few people have been hurt by going to Harvard. Itâs never a bad idea, if itâs within reach. If youâre thriving academically, keeping up with your extracurriculars, and got a perfect score on the ACT without batting an eye, then maybe you should consider applying to an Ivy League. But only if you have clearly defined reasons for doing so. There should be programs that youâre really interested in. Or, if youâre indecisive about academics but want to be pushed, the Ivy League is a great place to do that. At the end of the day, it doesnât matter which group you fall into. Your worth is not determined by where you go to college. As we always say, youâre better off finding things that youâre genuinely interested in â" and it doesnât matter where you find it. Contact us here if you want to work with someone and create a target school list.
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